I mean it. Go read this and then come back and tell me you're still letting that bitch get to you. (Yeah, my self doubt is female. And she really is a bitch.)
Or better yet, read that up there and go kick her narrow ass. If you don't come back, I'll assume you're opening a whole case of bitch-slapping on that French chick.
Happy writing. =o)
(BTW, this link came to me through Elizabeth Craig via Twitter. If you're not following her tweets, you're really missing out on some awesomeness.)