tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6076293789081887442.post361344974337562577..comments2024-01-04T19:29:46.884-06:00Comments on The Not-Writing Spectacle: Being Good but Dating BadUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6076293789081887442.post-40914333923009038532010-04-28T14:31:06.866-05:002010-04-28T14:31:06.866-05:00It's inevitably up to the individual to value ...It's inevitably up to the individual to value themselves enough to care.Datinghttp://www.luvfree.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6076293789081887442.post-15760927515507631322010-04-17T13:18:35.721-05:002010-04-17T13:18:35.721-05:00What my mum said.
Im sorry it took you 18 years o...What my mum said.<br /><br />Im sorry it took you 18 years of bad relationships to find Mr. Right. But at least you have him now =)Natalie Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01116611923169722657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6076293789081887442.post-41978851260401810292010-04-17T11:14:29.822-05:002010-04-17T11:14:29.822-05:00I swear I could probably write a book full of stor...I swear I could probably write a book full of stories like that about the people I've known who've been in abusive relationships. Sorry to hear about your relation, Lynne. She sounds very troubled, but you're right. There's only so much you can do to help people like that.B.E. Sandersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04336115135400388268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6076293789081887442.post-90817195910677879742010-04-17T11:10:40.805-05:002010-04-17T11:10:40.805-05:00I have a relation who dates men who beat her. I r...I have a relation who dates men who beat her. I recall going to visit her in the hospital when I was a "tween": she had 2 broken ribs & a capsized lung from "falling on the coffee table". Just one of the occasions when she couldn't lie effectively to us about what was happening. She now lives across the country with a different guy who: smashed all her car windows and tried to run her over with his car (she jumped off a small bridge to save herself). As far as I know he is a drug smuggler who spent several years in prison for his "hobby". I don't have anything direct to do with this relation: she has made her choices and thus become a poisonous person. It is sad - you can try to offer your emotional support, but it is inevitably up to the individual to value themselves enough to care. I remember her saying that nice guys are "boring". ya. I suppose never knowing when he's gonna swing at you can make things pretty exciting. I'll take my boring, fish keeping hubby Thanks.Lynne Murphy-Earlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16142094623911691046noreply@blogger.com